Sunday, July 31, 2016

Things I've taken for granted in America

I have 2 days remaining in the USA before I return to Kuwait.  While visiting here, lots of people ask me about the differences.  I usually try to explain that we are more alike than we are different.  Even so, there are some things that are commonly found in America that are NOT universal.  Here are a few of the things I have taken for granted living in America.



1. Public Schools

Children who live in the United States are entitled to a free and appropriate education.  This is regardless of social class and intellectual ability. This is true for typically developing children and children with special needs.  I understand that all public schools are not created equal and would like to see the day where achievement gaps close between poor and rich children in America.  However, it is true that all children residing in this country can attend school.  This is NOT a Universal thing.  Every country does not provide this.  Some countries, such as Kuwait, do provide free public schooling to it's own citizens.  Some countries provide public schools that do not adequately prepare children for higher education.  I taught in public schools in the USA for 10 years, and I'm proud of how they prepare our children for the future.  I have come to appreciate it more now that I currently live in a country that would not allow my children to attend school free of charge.








This is a scene from my neighborhood in Kuwait.
There are piles of debri and trash in the background.
2. Public Garbage Cans and Recycle Bins
Keeping your environment free of litter is NOT universal.  In some places, the side of the road is an acceptable place to throw your trash.  This does not make the environment look very good.  If I have a bottle of water while driving, I can always find a recycling bin or trash bin when I get to my destination in America.


I snapped this shot outside of my parent's home in Ohio

3.  Grass and Trees
I miss the abundance of greenery living in a desert climate.  Yes, Kuwait does have trees and grass, but its it small doses compared to my previous homes.  I believe this makes a difference in the air quality as well.


4. Church
When I moved to Raleigh, there were so many churches to choose from, that picking one was actually a point of frustration.  In Kuwait, a majority Muslim country, mosque are the norm and Christian churches are rare. I have found one to attend, thankfully.  The church is not allowed to advertise and put a sign out front, but we are free to conduct our Christian traditions inside of the walls.  I definitely have taken the freedom to worship as a Christian in America for granted.



5. Mail
Wanna send me a care package in Kuwait.  I'll have to ask a couple of people about the best way to make sure I actually receive it.  It can be hit or miss.  If your stuff gets lost in customs or stolen before it gets to you, you might just be out of luck.



6.   C'mon now. This place is a national treasure.  I'm gonna miss it.  They have clothes, food, cosmetics, a pharmacy, office supplies, and random crap on the $1 rack as you enter and exit.  You don't know how good it is until it isn't available.  By the way, pharmacies located within grocery stores or big box stores are not universal.  If I want headache meds or allergy meds in Kuwait, I walk to the neighborhood pharmacy or pay a taxi to take me.

This is an intersection in Toledo, Ohio


distracted drivers



7.  Calm traffic
I was driving yesterday and tried to just take in the peaceful scene before me.  Motorist waited their turn. People used signals to indicate a turn rather than just cut one another off with no notice.  Nobody was honking randomly for stupid reasons.  This is a gift I didn't even know I was taking for granted in the past.  Notice the photo to the left.  You see a man looking at his phone screen.  He is a taxi driver with a passenger.  You can also see a driver two lanes over with the phone in his hand.  I wish this was less common where I live, but it's not....








8. English

I thought about this while traveling this week and had to add it.  English is a very common language. Knowledge of the English language can make travel easier.  During my trip to Thailand in December, I spent Christmas with about 30 individuals at a yoga retreat.  We were from over 10 different countries and we communicated with one another in English although it was a 2nd or 3rd language for most of the participants.  On international flights, pilots are required to speak English.  When they address passengers over the speakers, they usually speak the primary language of the airline company first and then repeat their statements in English.  For example, when I fly on a Dutch airline, the pilot greets passengers first in Dutch and then in English.  My language is certainly something I have taken for granted.  I don't expect local people to speak my language when I travel, but I find it helpful when I hear my language spoken in foreign lands.





Friday, July 22, 2016

Girl's Getaway Trip- Sarasota Edition

I loved this beach!

Make new friends, but keep the old. One is silver and the other is gold.  I remember learning this song as a young Girl Scout and the meaning rings really true with my life now.  I've spent the past two weeks connecting with friends in North Carolina (my previous home) and Florida.  My Florida trip was with my lifelong friends Ebone and Ke'Lee.   We've been friends since before we can remember. We decided to connect this year with a trip to Siesta Key, Florida.  We shared great laughs, caught up on news in each others lives, and created some new memories.  During my first year living abroad, I've met a lot of new people and have made new friends, but there's something really special about lifelong friendship!

Siesta Key, Florida has beautiful beaches that look "post card" perfect




Notice that there is a man pulling on the strings of the parachute  on the left side.  He is manually pulling these guys into safety on the boat.
We decided to try parasailing!  All of us were a little nervous about this, but I'm glad that the girls were willing to give it a try.  It didn't help that the first attempt was a FAIL, and there was a problem with the parachute. The guys running the tour noticed the problem right away and jumped into action to get the riders down safely and replace the parachute.  I was up next.  I rode along with two kids who I had just met.  They were too light to go up alone, so I sat in the middle and balanced them out.   I didn't feel like it was scary to take off or land.  I thought the views were really nice from 800 feet above the sea!  It was a great experience.  

i'm in the middle 

Ebone and Ke'Lee flying high

We had a nice meal before setting off on a little sunset/full moon cruise

Time for a sunset cruise 
 




If you are ever on the Gulf Side of Florida, be sure to check out the stunning sunsets 



The multi-million dollar homes along the cruise were like an added bonus


Our 5 days in Siesta Key was just what we needed. The week also included shopping, eating at cool restaurants, and multiple episodes of "Power", because the girls want me to become a fan (it didn't work).  We have already started discussing our next trip. Maybe we will take this thing international.  I vote that we spin a globe and throw a dart, but I don't think that's gonna fly with these girls.


We all need people we can be ourselves with








Saturday, July 2, 2016

Where Have I Been?

I'm spending a lot of this summer in the USA.  This has been a great opportunity to connect with friends and family. Many of them greet me by referring to me as "World Traveler."  Some of them ask "Haven't you been everywhere, girl?"  I certainly haven't been everywhere.  I have been blessed to go to many places, but there is still a lot more of this world to see.
This photo is from an app called Been.  It shows the 21 countries that I have visited.  


In my case, travel just sparks to desire to continue to see more. After visiting 2 European countries this summer, I have committed to return and visit other European countries as well.  I am living and teaching in Kuwait now.  I'd like to visit some other Middle Eastern countries such as the UAE, Bahrain, and Qatar.  They would make some nice little weekend getaways.  I've never even been to South America.  Don't get me wrong, it has been amazing to be able to see the countries in orange on the map above.  According to that app, those countries represent only 5% of the world. What?  That's just a drop in the bucket baby!  Look at all the grey. Here are the places I have been in the order that I have been to them.

1. America- Yes, America counts.  The United states is vast and there is plenty of it to see.  If you look at the map above, I still have over half of this country to visit.  To date, I have lived in Ohio, Indiana, and North Carolina.  This summer, I am visiting Ohio, Michigan, North Carolina, and Florida.  I'm not really covering any new ground this year.

I've been to 21 states.  There is a lot more of my own country that I would like to see.
2.  Canada- The border to Canada is less than 1.5 hours from my hometown of Toledo, Ohio.  I have visited Canada for a family vacation and short trips with friends.

3. Ghana -during my sophomore and senior years of high school, I visited Ghana and South Africa with a program called "Toledo, Excel".

4. South Africa - This was the second part of my trip with Toledo Excel.  We visited with fellow high school students in Soweto, visited the CNN building in Johannesburg, and swam in the Indian Ocean in Durban
I'm visiting with fellow high-school students in Soweto, South Africa
5. China- As a teenager,  I spent a week in China. I toured Bejing and visited the Great Wall.  I had my first experience with being an unexpected tourist attraction, because the Chinese were fascinated by me and my African American peers traveling in a group.  This was also my first experience with extreme jet lag upon my return home.  The trip took place during spring break, and I found myself waking up for school between 2-4 am for the next 2 weeks.


6. Costa Rica- in a series of conversations with a friend and coworker in 2012, we decided it would be fun to spend the summer in Costa Rica.  We stayed with host families to keep cost low.  We attended a Spanish language school, took fun excursions, and participated in a volunteer service project.  Side note: This trip was very "low budget" and it still wiped out my bank account.  I started to think that I would never be able to see more of the world on my teacher's salary.

my selfie with my Costa Rican friend who helped me along this zip line tour through the Rain Forest


7. Australia- June 2015 My women's fellowship/Bible study/prayer/everything else group in North Carolina showed the true "ride or die" nature of supporting our "First Lady" by traveling with her to Adelaide, Australia for a speaking engagement.   I extended this trip a few more days and also explored Sydney, Australia as well.

BEST SMALL GROUP EVER!!!!!!!!!!! in Adelaide, Australia 

cuddly Koala in Australia

8. Kuwait- In 2015, I accepted a teaching position at a school in Kuwait.  I moved there in August.  It has been an interesting chapter in my life that has opened the door to continued world travel.

Kuwait


9. Thailand- December 2015 This was my first time traveling alone internationally.  Was I nervous and scared?  Yes.  Was the experience awesome? YES.  I spent my two week Christmas break exploring Bangkok, attending an island yoga retreat, island hopping, and hanging out with elephants at an elephant sanctuary called Elephant World.

scrubbing an elephant in Thailand 

sunrise Tai Chi in Koh Ya Noi, Thailand

10.  January 2016 - spent just 1 day in Sri Lanka.  It happened to be New Years Day and there were lots of celebrations taking place.  Unfortunately, I was so exhausted from my 2 weeks in Thailand, that I fell asleep on my tour of Colombo.


11.  Jordan March 2016- I work with lots of people who enjoy traveling.  A couple of them told me how much they enjoyed Jordan this year.  I decided to give Jordan a try and my mom came along too.  We visited the Ancient City of Petra, the Baptism site of Jesus, Mt. Nebo, and we floated in the Dead Sea.

The Ancient City of Petra 


12.  Israel April 2016- I didn't go to church on Easter this year because I was traveling.  But I did go to the Garden of Gethsemane and the Upper Room that week!  Maybe I should have packed some wine and crackers in my bag for my own little communion.  On a short day trip to Jerusalem, I visited the Mt. of Olives and the Wailing Wall.  The experience of walking in the places where Jesus walked was sacred and historic.

the location of the Last Supper in Jerusalem 



The Garden of Gethsemane


13. Egypt May 2016- I visited the resort city of Sharm El Sheikh, Egypt.  There are no pyramids here, but there are beautiful hotels, relaxing beaches, and fun excursions.  I have joked that I took a "reverse children of Israel" tour this year by going from Israel and Jordan back to Egypt :)

quad biking through the desert in Egypt 

14.  The Netherlands June 2016- I think this country is super cool.  I don't tend to enjoy big cities in general, but Amsterdam is a very walkable and tourists friendly city.  The canal and beautiful architecture were just incredible.
Amsterdam

my selfie with Van Gogh's original self - portrait 


15.  Belgium June 2016- I spent a couple of days exploring Brugge, Belgium.   There were cobble stone streets and chocolate shops everywhere.  The setting is like that of a medieval fairy tale.


Note: This post was updated on September 1, 2017


16. Greece August 2016- I seem to be getting the hang of this solo travel thing.  I spent 2 weeks visiting Athens, Paros, and Santorini.  The photo below shows me in Santorini, which I found to be beautiful but also overpriced and overrated.


17.  Qatar- New Years Day 2017


18. Spain-April 2017


19.  Malaysia- June 2017



20. Singapore- July 2017




21. Turkey-August 2017
I currently live and work in Istanbul, Turkey





22. ?  Who knows.. Actually I do because i booked my ticket this week!  I'll tell you all about it August!  What countries have you been to?  Where would you still like to go?